How to
Be Happy In Life
The world is a strange
place, which has never been fully understood by anyone, and no one will it, in
future. Every generation produced great minds, who interpret it according to
their understanding. However, despite their efforts, it is still a mystery.
Every single person in this world is in the search of happiness but
unfortunately, they are searching it in wrong places, like money, fame,
recognition, power, and the quest of gaining more and more. However, when they
achieve these things they are not satisfied with it, and they spend their whole
life while only thinking about the future. Consequently, that future will never
come for them, because even if it came, they will again be thinking about the
future and this process will continue until their deaths.
This is why the world is
strange, the world is strange because of the following reasons. (1) A person
who has got married will be in search of divorce and a person who has yet to
marry will be always thinking about marriage. (2) A child will be in a hurry to
become an adult, and an adult person will be always yearning for his childhood.
(3) A person who has a job will always be complaining about it, while a person
who has no job will be in search of one. (4) A person who has poor will be
dreaming to have lots of money, while a person who has already enough money
will not be satisfied from it, and sometimes will be thinking that “poverty is
a blessing.” (5) A person who has famous will be hiding from common people and
will be tired of autographs, while a person who has not famous yet will be a yearning that people stop him in the streets for an autograph. This is why no
one knows what is the basic reason in this world to be happy.
Life is all about moments
and feelings. It is not about things, which unfortunately sometimes we consider
it. Life is great when we only thinking about the present time and the present
moments. We value what we have in the current time, not something which we do
not currently have. This is very important and one of the basic reason for
happiness. When you think like that way you care about things and people that
are with you at the present moment. It does not mean that one must not think
about the future because future planning is important but it also not means
that one ruined his present while thinking about the future. There must be a
balance between present and future. On the other hand, a person is also not
happy when he always living in his past. This way it says “Yesterday is
history, tomorrow is mystory, and today is present, this is why it is called
present.”
To be happy one must
learn from Nature. Nature is a great teacher and a good companion. Learn to go
with the flow, just like nature. There will be moments when you feel depressed
and hopeless, you think that everything is going in the wrong direction.
However, later when you look at it from a different perspective, you realized
that everything is ok. That is wrong but you don’t understand the things which
God plans for you. God is the best of the planner.
This leads us to the most
important point and that is to have faith in God. Always believe that He is
with you and He will never leave you alone. In this way, you will feel a
different kind of feelings and eventually, it will start to give you happiness.
Suddenly, you will realize that I am not alone, that there is someone Who is
with me all the time, Who protects me, care for me, and plans for me. This
belief will give you courage and will lead you towards happiness.
I met a person who told
me that his life is not good. That everything in his life seems to be unhappy.
No matter whatever he tries but nothing work out. However, he said one day, he
told his story to a person who was sitting alone on a lonely road, and that
changed his whole life. The person told him what worst can happen to him. He
told him that I am already in my worst state. Then the person smiled and
replied, the worse can happened to you that you will die. Is it not a blessing
to feel free and be alive. This answer shooked the person and from the day on,
he starts thinking about what he has, not what he doesn’t. This one simple trek
changed his life.
Life is short and
unpredictable, so live it the way you want. Never wait for something to happen,
never ruined your present for something unknown to you. Life is beautiful and
there is a lot of happiness out there, but you need to see it in that way. It’s
all start from the mindset that we have, to be happy one must change the way he
looked at the things. When you think about positive things and be optimistic
about your life, then only good things will happen to you.
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